By Jordan Uditsky
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September 19, 2025
As a 17 th -century French playwright, actor, and poet, Molière probably received his fair share of stinging, negative reviews of his work. While we may not know exactly how he felt about such critiques, he did offer some sage advice that dentists should heed when confronted with a patient’s scathing, hurtful, or untrue online review: “ A wise man is superior to any insults which can be put upon him and the best reply to unseemly behavior is patience and moderation .” Human nature being what it is, patience and moderation can be in short supply when a dentist reads a review that casts doubt on their competence, integrity, or professionalism, especially if they believe that the review’s content contains abject falsehoods or misrepresentations. Not only can such online comments make blood boil and bruise the ego, but even one negative review can have a devastating impact on a practice and its reputation. 84% of the public trusts online reviews to help them make consumer decisions, including those involving healthcare providers. According to some surveys, more than 70% of patients say they read reviews before selecting a healthcare provider, and nearly half would not consider a provider with fewer than four stars. Negative reviews can disproportionately influence perception, even if they represent a small fraction of feedback. Given that a single negative review can stand out in an otherwise glowing profile and, if left unaddressed, may deter potential patients, dentists understandably will want to respond, correcting misstatements or otherwise neutralizing the misrepresentations or assertions contained in the review. But those responses, if made reflexively and without careful consideration of legal and ethical boundaries, can make a bad situation worse or make the dentist appear petty and vindictive. Additionally, dentists who do decide to respond to a patient’s negative review publicly may inadvertently reveal confidential patient information in their attempts to refute allegations of poor or substandard care. Such transgressions can have catastrophic licensing and regulatory consequences for dentists. So what should dentists do when faced with a horrible review that every prospective patient can see? As discussed below, responses can, and often should, be made, but with the patience and moderation Molière recommended. Hitting Back v. Hitting HIPAA Perhaps the biggest risk dentists take when publicly responding to a patient’s negative review is inadvertently violating their HIPAA patient privacy obligations. Unlike other businesses, dentists cannot freely discuss the details of a patient’s complaint in a public forum. The HIPAA Privacy Rule prohibits disclosing protected health information (PHI) without patient authorization. Even acknowledging that the reviewer is a patient may constitute a privacy violation. For example, if a patient writes, “I had a terrible root canal here,” the dentist cannot reply with, “We offered you antibiotics, but you refused.” That would be a clear HIPAA violation. Instead, dentists should respond in general terms that neither confirm nor deny treatment specifics. Best Practices for Responding to Negative Reviews When deciding how and whether to respond, dentists should keep the following principles and tips in mind: Cool Off Before Going Off. The worst thing a dentist can do with a bad online review is to immediately post a response in the throes of anger and indignation, however justifiable those emotions may be. Before deciding whether and how to respond, take the time needed for your professionalism and rationality to come back to the fore. Stay Professional and Neutral. Never respond defensively or emotionally. A hostile reply can escalate the issue and further damage your reputation. Even if the review feels unfair, professionalism is key. Acknowledge Without Confirming. Responses should not confirm that the reviewer is or was a patient. Instead, use neutral language such as: “We take all feedback seriously and strive to provide excellent care. We encourage you to contact our office directly to discuss your concerns.” Take the Conversation Offline. Invite the reviewer to call or email the office to resolve the issue privately. This demonstrates attentiveness while protecting confidentiality. Highlight Practice Values. Use responses as an opportunity to reaffirm commitment to patient care. For example: “Our goal is to make every patient feel comfortable and well cared for. We welcome feedback to help us improve.” When Silence May Be Golden Not every negative review needs a reply. If the comment is clearly unreasonable, inflammatory, or fraudulent, sometimes the best response is no response—or a simple flagging of the review for removal. Consider not responding in the following circumstances: Abusive or Fake Reviews. If a review contains profanity, slander, or appears fraudulent, flag it for removal instead of responding. Ongoing Legal Disputes. If the complaint relates to malpractice or litigation, responding publicly can backfire and give the patient more ammunition for their claims. Obvious Spam. Automated or irrelevant reviews do not require acknowledgment. Can You Sue for Defamation? Sure. Will You Win? Probably Not. On more than one occasion, a panicked and indignant dentist or other client of mine has called me to ask whether they could and should sue their former patient for defamation for a harsh online review. The answer, of course, is that you are well within your rights to sue “YourDentalPracticeSucks123” or whoever it is that is trying to take a wrecking ball to your career. You can sue anybody for anything. Whether such a lawsuit will be successful or has any legal basis is another matter entirely. The fact is that even the most scathing negative online review, if susceptible to the principle of “innocent construction” (meaning the allegedly libelous statement is given a non-defamatory interpretation because it is deemed ambiguous) or is composed of opinions rather than demonstrably false allegations of misconduct, will likely not qualify as actionable defamation in most jurisdictions. Furthermore, such lawsuits can expose the offended dentist or other professional to backlash, ridicule, and bad publicity in the fast-moving and fickle world of social media. If you look to hold online review sites and other platforms responsible for false and defamatory information posted by reviewers, you won’t get terribly far. While you may be able to get a website to remove a particularly egregious post, Section 230 of the federal Communications Decency Act largely immunizes such sites from claims based on comments or reviews posted by third-party users. Is It a Subjective Opinion or a Factual Allegation? The most common issue that arises in defamation cases based on online reviews is the question of whether or not a statement was false. Only false statements of fact can form the basis of a defamation claim, not opinions, no matter how histrionic or counterfactual they may be. A statement of fact is one that can be objectively proved or disproved. Consider the two following hypothetical reviews of a dentist: “She was rude, impatient, and treated me disrespectfully. It was perhaps the worst experience I’ve ever had with a dentist in my entire life. She is horrible.” “He stole money from my purse and touched me inappropriately while I was under sedation.” The former is a non-actionable opinion, as the dentist will not be able to objectively prove whether or not she was, in fact, rude, disrespectful, and the cause of one of the worst experiences in the patient’s life. Contrast that with the latter statement that accuses the dentist of specific actions and misconduct that can be proven or disproven with evidence. Proactive Reputation Management The best defense against negative reviews is a steady stream of positive ones. Dentists can encourage satisfied patients to leave feedback by: Sending follow-up emails with review links Placing QR codes in the office for easy access Training staff to request reviews after successful appointments A high volume of positive reviews will dilute the impact of the occasional negative one and provide a more accurate picture of patient satisfaction. As infuriating as negative online reviews can be, it is the rare dentist who can make it through their career without leaving at least one patient dissatisfied or unhappy with their treatment. When a patient shares those feelings with the world, it can be easy to let it get under your skin. But sometimes, restraint can speak louder than a retort. If you have questions or concerns about negative online reviews or reputation management for your dental practice, please contact Grogan Hesse & Uditsky today at (630) 833-5533 or contact us online to arrange for your free initial consultation. We focus a substantial part of our practice on providing exceptional legal services for dentists and dental practices, as well as orthodontists, periodontists, endodontists, pediatric dentists, and oral surgeons. We bring unique insights and deep commitment to protecting the interests of dental professionals and their practices and welcome the opportunity to work with you. Jordan Uditsky, an accomplished businessman and seasoned attorney, combines his experience as a legal counselor and successful entrepreneur to advise dentists and other business owners in the Chicago area. Jordan grew up in a dental family, with his father, grandfather, and sister each owning their own dental practices, and this blend of legal, business, and personal experience provides Jordan with unique insight into his clients’ needs, concerns, and goals.